[Sure but he's like ten years older than her, and he joined the force to get laid. His Tinder profile is absolutely him in uniform holding a gun. This is not the guy who has good relationship advice. But he's trying.]

Okay for starters; you really shouldn't trust me. Not with this, just.. in general.

And secondly, the people who make the rules for dating or whatever, are always people who got fucked over in their last relationship and want everyone to be miserable. So you definitely shouldn't be listening to what "everyone" is saying.

Which is probably your mom too.